Human beings have managed to acquire mastery of the planet that we all live on, and we have also uncovered the secrets of the universe at the very least to a certain extent. However, once all has been said and is now out of the way there are still countless aspects of humanity that we have failed to discover the meaning behind, and many of these mysteries surround humans themselves and why they do the things that they do and feel the things that they feel.
A really pertinent example that we can think of occurs after you have broken up with someone or the other. Oftentimes breaking up with a partner can be the best thing for you. The reason behind this is that the relationship might not have been healthy for you, and you would likely be researching things to avoid for attracting your ex-girlfriend back. That said, you might also be thinking about getting back with the person that you broke up with, and doing so would make you significantly more confused than might have been the case otherwise.
Understanding why you want to get back with your ex can be useful since it can help you see whether or not this notion is rational. The main reason for this is that you crave normalcy. You just want to get back to a life that you had gotten used to, and in this irrational state of mind you would fail to remember why you ever broke up with her. You might also be feeling lonely, and that is the worst possible reason for you to want to get back with anyone at all.